Hailey Palos

Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (CA #126447), Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor (CA #9838)

It’s hard to ask for help, yet it’s harder to stay stuck.

Just because life looks good on paper doesn’t mean you’re actually satisfied. Maybe that’s in your work life: as a first responder or professional, the demands placed on you are more than most people can handle. And still, you’ve managed to be successful…but it’s starting to take a toll.

Or perhaps it’s in this new season of life you’re in. The transition to parenthood might not look or feel the way you expected it to, and as “happy” as you feel like you should be, you’re equally as anxious, depressed, and might feel disconnected from yourself and the people around you.

You’ve tried everything - maybe you’ve been to therapy before - just trying to feel better, and nothing has stuck.

Being here right now—considering actually reaching out to a counselor—might be really, really hard. I want you to know: that’s okay.

I don’t believe you always have to be “ready” to change your life. In therapy with me, we’ll take a different approach. Rather than encouraging you to make big leaps you may or may not be ready for, we’ll work on helping you figure yourself out and then decide if there’s something you want to do differently. If you do? Great, we’ll do it. If you don’t? No problem. We’ll simply work to better understand what’s happening under the surface.

I’m not here to just give you lip service. My style is direct, engaged, and collaborative—there’s no just sitting, nodding, and “mmhmm”-ing here. Not only that, but my lived experience as a first responder wife and mother means you can sit down with someone who actually “gets” it.

  • I am not your stereotypical cardigan-wearing, quiet, fluffy therapist. We work as a team to identify what brings you here and how, if at all, we would like to change or expand this. My goal is to give understanding, education, and practical skills that help you process what brings you here now and how they can be applied in the future.

    I don’t have all the answers, but I do have skills and processes that can help you experience the change you’re looking for.

    I hold a bachelor's degree in psychology from William Jessup University and a master's degree in professional counseling with an emphasis on marriage and family from Grand Canyon University.

    I utilize a combination of treatment modalities as they best fit your needs, including EMDR, CBT, DBT, motivational interviewing, trauma-informed methods, experiential therapy, and emotionally-focused therapy. We’ll get creative by adapting tools to fit you.

    I am also the co-host of The Mental Cover Podcast (@thementalcover on Instagram), a First Responder spouse, and a mama.

    • First Responders and their Families

    • Postpartum, Pregnancy, and Infertility

    • Parenting

    • Anxiety

    • Depression

    • Co-dependency

    • Grief & loss

    • Life Changes

    • Trauma

    • Couples

    • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

    • Polyvagal Theory

    • Somatic Experiencing (Beginning Level Student)

    • Cognitive Behavioral Theory (CBT)

    • Holistic Approach

    • Culturally Informed

    • In-person at Roseville, CA office

    • CA virtual sessions

    • $145 per 50-minute session

    • In-network with:

      • Aetna

      • Blue Shield of CA

      • CA Victims of Crime